CAMPING AT JAMES RIVER STATE PARK

I absolutely love looking back at these photos from camping a few weeks ago. James River State Park was new to me, recommended by Mignon, and it was magical discovering this place for ourselves. 

By some miracle, we got a bunch of close friends (43 in total, 24 of them kids!) all available to go camping on the same weekend and we were all equally excited about it. Maybe except for the two days leading up to it when I was non-stop packing and the air conditioner had broken in our house and it also happened to be 98 and 99 degrees those two days.  Once I survived that part, everything else was pretty seamless, and I think we all came away restored by being together in the beauty of nature. 

We rented nine camping spots along the James River and one by one, we arrived on Friday afternoon and started setting up camp.



When we got to the park, we stopped by a bathroom near one of the campsites and discovered it was a horse campground! Horse owners could bring their horse to go camping and take their horse on any of the numerous trails they had available.   We met a woman named Amy and her horse, Storm, and both of them were kind enough to let the girls pet Storm and ask Amy a bunch of questions. 





It really was incredible that our campsite was right next to the river. That meant we ate our meals next to it, woke up to it, watched the water change as the sun rose and set, waded in it, played next to it, and drank hot coffee while watching the mist run across the water.



Logan was very helpful setting up our camp, and afterward she said her favorite part was sleeping in her sleeping bag. 



Look at those amazing tree roots!



A few yards away from our campsite was this footbridge that we crossed to get to a canoe/kayak/tube send-off spot. 

The first night there, after it had drizzled a bit, we walked over to that spot when the clouds broke, saw two rainbows and then beheld this incredible sunset.  It was breathtaking, the air felt different, the mist took on a fairy-like prance, and it was as if we had entered another world for those moments.

That evening we had Mignon's delicious hamburgers for dinner, made all the more delicious because of where we were.  After we put the kids to bed, we sat around the campfire, sipping on drinks and catching up over the flickering flames.

The next day after a breakfast of eggs and bacon, along with pickled things and fruit, we had a quick group powow.

Some of the best parts of this weekend were all the in-between moments - when we were setting up camp, slowly waking up, making a meal, getting ready for the next thing, the kids felt free (and we the grownups did too) to roam around, frolic and play, have adventures and explore with each other.  It felt like how things should be.

This girl turned eight over the weekend! and we were all excited about the birthday celebration we would have for her later that evening. 

Fanny packs for the win, especially if they are insulated.  This one has our chicken salad in it that I was bringing for our picnic lunch! 

Half the group (the older kids and most of the adults) rented kayaks, canoes or tubes to float down the river to a beach spot.  The younger kids and the rest of us took a trail that was a little over a mile long along the river to meet them there.  I was also especially proud of Logan who did such a good job on the walk there and back, for a total of almost 3 miles! 

I really loved this trail and walk!  

These are the only photos I have of the river beach but there are more shots in the video here and we had such a good time watching the kids play, eating our lunch, and then jumping off a rock across the way! 

Dinner that night was DELICIOUS. 

Birthday girl Davy got a pinata! which was obviously a huge hit with all the kids. 

The sparklers were astounding to this little girl who had never experienced them before. 

The next morning, hot coffee was in order, as was french toast and bacon.  

The whole gang! (except the two napping babies) 

We will be back James River State Park! 

WHAT I'M READING V. 50

1. Garlic and Sapphires by Ruth Reichl

It has everything I love - food reviews, recipes, stories about food and how to get food, dressing up in disguise, and being a working mom. She writes with humorous clarity, and her stories were a fascinating look into the offices of The New York Times and into the restaurant scene of NYC during that time.  After this one, I quickly put myself on the hold list for her new book, "Save Me the Plums".

2. On the Come Up by Angie Thomas 

I read Thomas' first book: "The Hate U Give" and was very impressed with the her voice and the specificity and nuance of an important story that must be told over and over again, all from the perspective of a teenage girl. It was one of those books that I was thankful existed in literature, and especially more so that it was a YA book that teenagers would readily read. This one was also a very fun and satisfying read, although I didn't like it as much as her first one, I loved how Thomas explored the complexities and difficulties of what it means for a teenage girl - and her multi-faceted identity of race, neighborhood and daughter - to have a voice. 

3. The Museum of Modern Love by Heather Rose 

I listened to this one on audio via Hoopla - I had never heard of this one before but Hoopla recommend it to me and when I saw that it was based around the Modern Museum of Art ("MOMA"), I was intrigued. It turns out this story is inspired by the performance artist, Marina Abraomvic's performance piece called "The Artist is Present" that occurred at MOMA several years ago.  Something about this felt like the purpose of this book was to give the author a chance to speculate on her curiosity about the artist, which is interesting in of itself, but as a novel, I didn't love this one and wouldn't recommend it unless! you are a fan of Abramovic yourself. There was something very poetic and intimate about this story though that kept me captivated and I don't regret the time I spent with this one at all.

4. The Giant's House by Elizabeth McKracken 

I heard a guest on a "What Should I Read Next" podcast episode recommend this one, saying that Elizabeth McCracken was one of her favorite authors and saying that this was a good book to start with. My interest is always piqued when anyone says so-and-so is their favorite author; it immediately gives the book recommendation a whole lot more credit because I assumed that the person is intimate with the author's body of work and has thought about it a good amount. I have to say, this is another one I wouldn't recommend to just anyone.  The premise is unusual - a librarian living in a small town in the 1950s falls in love with a boy who has giantism - and if you get too fixated on the logistics, you may miss the point altogether.  The loveliness of this book in the way the language brings you into the isolation of the narrator, and her connection to another person. There is a sadness to it that stays with you afterwards, which I attribute to the skill of the author. 

CAMPING TRIP!

We went camping this past weekend with a bunch of friends and families at James River State Park and it was a glorious weekend of being together surrounded by the lush and hum of the forest and river. We spread across nine campsites right next to the James River, cooked and ate our meals over the fire, slept in tents or hammocks, watched kids frolic and play over the fields and in the river, went on a hike, swam and canoed and kayaked on the river, jumped from a rock into the water, celebrated a birthday, and had rambling conversations over a campfire after the kids fell asleep. Sloane and Logan loved camping outdoors and we are so grateful for these people that feel like family.  Here is the video we put together with the clips we took during the weekend (him with the Dragon Touch and me on my iPhone)!

WHAT I'M READING V. 49

1. The Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosario Butterfield

Several people mentioned this book to me, and it seems like many in my church were reading this book this past year. I don't agree with everything she says, and I ended up going down a wormhole of googling her in the middle of reading this to watch interviews and articles, but her writing is beautiful and her point that vulnerability is the key to true and lasting relationships, which is really the point of it all, is one that I do agree with. Her story and the way she is able to live it out is specific to her, so I don't think this can be taken prescriptively for all to apply to their own lives, but it is insight into how one person who believes wholeheartedly in the gospel message applies it to her own.

2. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith

This is one that I am sure I read when I was younger, but going through it again (on audiobook) this time, it felt so fresh and wonderful!  I loved this book. The writing, the story, the characters - all of it. This is one I will definitely reread again and again in the future, and hopefully one day discuss with my girls, too.

3. Essentialism by Greg McKeown

I heard this one referred to often, especially on blogs and podcasts pertaining to minimalism and simplifying one's life. I tried to start it a couple of times, but then the library hold would expire and take it away, and then I would put it back on the waitlist. This last time, I stuck with it and it was marvelous. Such a thoughtful and important understanding of simplifying, not just for the sake of less, but for the sake of essentials.  It presses you to ask yourself questions, to look inward and determine what your own essentials are, and if you are scheduling and living your life accordingly.  This is another one to reread in the future.

4. The Bookshop on the Corner by Jenny Colgan

This book was a fun and breezy read about a woman who decides to live out her dream of owning a bookshop in the form of a van full of books that she drives around recommending and selling. I can’t resist books about people who love books (similarly, I can’t resist any movie about dance, especially one where main character gets their longing to dance fulfilled and of course, dance-offs), so I would have read this regardless, plus it is set in beautiful Scottish countryside and has Mr. Darcy-esque romance, but it started to feel a little flat when I realized a happily-ever romance was going to be a big part of the finale. While overall it was a little fluffy (and I don’t mind occasional fluff!), it was a very enjoyable read, but my favorite part of the book was the author’s forward, “A Message to Readers” which provides descriptions about her favorite places to read.

MAKING PASTA

One of my most favorite pasta recipes of all time is Ottolenghi's Saffron Tagliatelle with Spiced Butter. My friend Elizabeth introduced me to it a few years ago, and I made it recently to my great joy and delight (but didn't document with a photo, alas). And while making that recipe, which calls for making fresh tagliatelle, I remembered how easy it is to make pasta from scratch and resolved to do more of it, to practice and get real comfortable with it, and maybe one day a pasta maker will even be a part of the picture.

I actually can't remember the recipe I used to make this version photographed here, but I do remember they said to try making the dough in a food processor, and I also used half regular flour and half semolina flour.  After mixing and kneading, I let it rest for about half an hour before rolling out and cutting, and then boiled it in water for 2-3 minutes.  I tossed it with pesto and we had it for lunch that day outside on our picnic bench.  It was good, not exactly what I was going for - I'm looking for a chewier dough (I think the trick may be to hang it to dry for a couple of hours after cutting?) but - but Logan loved it and had several bowls.  I'm going to try again, with this method and really simple recipe and have the girls do it with me too. I'll experiment but having one batch of dough rest for a while, and another one do the same thing but also hang the noodles to dry and see if I can tell a difference.  I'll likely report back!

WHAT I'M READING V. 48

1. I'm Still Here by Austin Channing Brown

This one caught my by surprise. I mistakenly thought the author was a man and also had a certain expectation about what this book would be about based on the title.  Brown is an honest and gracious voice, and she talks about the nuances of identity under the influence of race and faith (and both matters, she would argue) and the staggering and difficult to explain microaggressions (especially in the church).  I really appreciated the specificity and clarity of writing and think it is a book everyone should read.

2.  Gratitude by Oliver Sachs

This was a very short audiobook, just about an hour long, and it seems to be reflections by Oliver Sachs during the end of his life. I have been a fan of Oliver Sachs ever since I heard him on Radiolab, and have always appreciated his thoughtful observations and ability to communicate complex things in a accessible way.  In a way, it was like listening to a podcast length audio of journal entries, one that I was pleased to be privy to.


3. Catch-22 by Joseph Heller

Wow, that was a doozy of a book. I knew very little about the book except that it is where the phrase "catch-22" comes from, that it's long, and that it's considered a significant twentieth century novel. I soon learned that it's a work of satirical fiction - almost absurdist fiction - set during WWII, following the life of experiences of Yossarian, an air force bombadier.  It's very bizarre (sometimes confusingly so), really funny at parts, almost slapstick at other parts, and baffling during most parts. It could be argued that its stance is anti-war, but it's probably more accurate to say that Heller is more interested in things like distortion of logic and justice within the context of war, as well as a feeling of powerlessness within bureaucracy.  And then ultimately, he contrasts these themes with glimmers of personal integrity and the desire to live. 

4.  Sag Harbor by Colson Whitehead

I didn't realize until about halfway through this book that this is the same author that wrote the recent "Underground Railroad" (2016) that we read together in book club. "Sag Harbor" is completely different - it's a memoir-style, coming of age story where we are privy to the inner monologue of a teenager during the summer of 1985. The tone of this one is relaxed, playful, full of 1980s pop culture references, but also specific enough that it took time for me to get immersed in the rhythm of it. Once I did, it was extra interesting to me because you learn how Benji (the narrator) spends the summer in Sag Harbor, a section in the Hamptons, where his parents own a a summer home, along with many other black families who are doctors and lawyers in Manhattan. Many of the memoir-style novels about the black narrative have to do with the cycle of poverty, imprisonment, and outward struggle, but this one stands out in that, while fully aware of the black-self-as-perceived-as-others, it also isn't his entire identity. It's all a part of his identity - the fact his parents are wealthy and that he's black (he mentions how when he walks to school in his private school uniform in Manhattan, he gets asked if he's the son of a diplomat), knowledgeable about rap and hip-hop (to fit in with his black friends), but also a self-proclaimed dork that plays Dungeons and Dragons and loves the Smiths, etc. American stories need to recognize and include the distinctions since diverse voices is what makes up the fabric of America, but it also shouldn't focus on those labels as the sole identity without taking time to listen to their specific stories. 

SPRING AT BEECHWOOD 2019

Our spring at Beechwood video for this year! Here are the videos from 2018 and 2017.

This year I recorded all videos on my phone and then put it together using the Splice app. I did miss some of the sharpness and effects of my DSLR camera, but it didn't outweigh the benefit and ease of being able to record of my phone at any moment, and editing on Splice is a breeze.

It's been quieter on the blog these days, and I have some things I want to catch up on and document here, but in the meanwhile, I've been posting frequently on instagram, jotting down notes and thoughts in a variety of other places, and having lots of good conversations over good food that get etched into my bones.

WHAT I'M READING V. 47

1. Crossing to Safety by Wallace Stephen

This had lovely writing and sucked me in deep to the cadence and story-telling spell that was woven through each of its pages.  It takes you through several decades of a couple's friendship with another couple, and it is poignant, beautiful, raw, and memorable. This is one that I might end up re-reading just so that I can be immersed in that world and language again. 


2. American Like Me by America Ferrara (audiobook)

This one is a compilation of personal essays by 31 different people! All well-known people of color who have had the experience of living between cultures. The essayists include people like America Ferrera (who compiled this book), Jenny Zhang, Padma Lakshmi, Randall Park, Lin Manuel Miranda, Bambadjab Bamba, Michelle Kwan, Kumail Nanjiani, Uzo Aduba, Jeremy Lin, Auli'i Cravalho, Reshma Saujani, Joy Cho, etc.  I found these to be interesting, heartening, and made me feel more known and less alone. Even though each person's experiences are so different, this kind of book points to how valuable these variety of voices are to being part of a community, to being American.  I especially enjoyed America Ferrera's introduction and her own essay, and it was great listening to this one, since many of the contributors read their own essays.

3. The Book of Unknown Americans by Christina Henriquez

It was really interesting reading this one at the same time as "American Like Me", except this was a work of fiction, telling the story of a family who came from Mexico to Delaware for their daughter who had an accident, to get her into a special school, despite the fact that it meant they had to leave their family and comfortable life, to one where they lived in near poverty and loneliness. This one switches narrators as well, so you get to hear the mom's voice, as well as the teenage daughter, the boy who develops a crush on the teenage daughter, and all their neighbors in the building they move into, who have different stories of struggle.  I still think about scenes in this book sometimes, especially the ones where they don't have enough food, and how intimate this story takes us into the lives of these people and remind us that we all experience the same kind of hope and despair. This book and "American Like Me" made me more aware of my own in-betweeness and made me glad and proud of the various cultures that make up this country.


4.  To the Bright Edge of the World by Eowyn Ivey (audiobook) 

This author wrote "Snow Child", which I had devoured a few months ago for book club, and Megan suggested this as another one written by Ivey that she enjoyed. Like "Snow Child", it contains several scenes surrounded by snow and the wilderness in that area of Alaska, as well as Vancouver, but this one takes place in time even earlier than the 1920s, closer to the 1880s, and goes back and forth between narrators, between time periods (jumping into the present at times), mostly in the form of letters.  The story describes an expedition to Alaska, and is full of exploration, adventure, romance, photography, and the culture of that time period. It also has elements of wonder and magic, which I'm learning may be part of Ivey's storytelling, especially when describing nature. It was a lovely read.

SAUCY

I am very into sauces these days. I am of the opinion that a good sauce can elevate a simple meal to a gourmet dish. It can transform a roasted vegetable into a favorite food and something you crave.  It can make you think of new recipes and combinations of food.

I thought I would round up some of my recent favorites here, starting with the romesco sauce above. This is a quick and easy version of the traditional sauce. The original version, which I've made, calls for roasting the red peppers yourself, and it does make it oh so smoky and delicious, but this one's allowance for jarred roasted red peppers makes it almost as good. The roasted red peppers, tomato, olive oil and almond combination makes it so creamy, nutty, savory and bright. I've eaten it spread on toasted baguette as an appetizer, have added sardines and red onions on top of that toast to make it a meal, and have used it has a dipping sauce for roasted vegetables.  I think it's traditional served with fish, which I haven't tried yet, but I bet it's amazing that way too.

This vegan aioli sauce is the perfect accompaniment to roasted vegetables (I served it this way as an appetizer) and can also substitute for a mayo in a sandwich. 

I haven't made miso-carrot sauce with ginger recipe but it is really similar to the sauce dressing that we used to make all the time last summer (and Ken's favorite) which is so fresh and bright and addictive.

My friend Elizabeth recently told me about this red blanket sauce, and at first I wondered if it was similar to the romesco but it is very different! This one has cocoa and a ton of spices in it (similar to a mole in that way), as well as tahini! It's complex and filling and really good with a sweet potato (as described in the recipe) and also with eggs.

This green sauce probably gets the award for best and favorite sauce, just based on how much we have made it and consistently love it. It's good on any meat (we love it on steak or chicken), as well as a salad, and it's probably Ken's favorite as well.

And one more bonus one! I haven't made this one yet, but my friend Elizabeth (same as above) sent me this Laotian Bang Bang sauce while describing a recipe for larb she made recently, and while I haven't tried it yet, I bet it's perfect for dressing larb, as well as on pretty much anything you can think of.

WHAT I'M READING V. 46

1. Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves

We read this book at work for one of our book studies, and it ended up being a very practical and helpful book to evaluate each of our emotional intelligence (there is a test that you take that scores you in self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management) and then gives straightforward and valuable strategies to improve in each of those areas.  It was source of good discussions in our groups and got me thinking about ways I can better my sense of internal peace and external communication. 

2. The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin 

I found this one on Hoopla and remembered hearing that it was a good autobiography (and it has been a while since I have read an autobiography! Autobiography being distinct from the form of a memoir. The distinction is that usually a memoir covers one specific aspect of a person's life, while an autobiography usually covers the entire timeline. I wonder if this definition is shifting though now, with so many celebrities writing 'memoirs' of their lives, i.e. how they got to where they are). It was great (it took me a second to slip into the language of the mid-1700s), revealing (I especially loved hearing the details of what life was like then, including the way they thought, talked, ate, conversed, etc.) and I learned some more about Benjamin Franklin that I didn't know before.  While I wish it went into more detail about his work as an inventor and diplomat, it was an insightful look into his career as a printer, journalist and politician.

3. Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann

I didn't know what to expect with this one because I had never heard of the Osage tribe before, and I was completely floored by this narrative of what happened in the 1920s in this country. It's pretty horrifying how intricate the plans were to kill members of the Osage tribe because of greed and racism. It's an important story that should be told, especially to ensure that our understanding of America is one that is a more accurate one because of its recognition and inclusiveness of all its voices. 

4. The Common Rule by Justin Whitmel Earley

I was familiar with the concept of The Common Rule beforehand (Justin was on our podcast, Living with the Moons, to talk about it!) but there were so many gems in this book; gems that need the medium of a book to allow for pauses, rumination, and savoring of sentences. There is vulnerability and intimacy in the stories he tells and wisdom to be found in the spaces between yearning and peace; in many ways, reading the book felt like a conversation with a friend. Full of practical guidance, not for the sake of creating habits, but for the sake of living beautifully and building lives of love. I still have it by my bed so I can refer back to it when needed!

SLOANE AND LOGAN THESE DAYS

Happy Spring! We've been waiting and waiting. After daylight savings, there has been that extra hour of daylight when we get home that has felt like magic, and we are all tingly for sunshine and fresh air.

I always include in these notes the cute and lovely things about the girls  that I want to remember, but I should also include here that I want to remember that this was also the time when Logan had a really hard time falling asleep (resulting in many a frustrating evening and exhausted and rushed morning), when the girls kept begging for more time before bedtime to play, and that sometimes the result of the girls getting so deep in play is that I have to repeat myself several times before they hear me.  But this was also the time when Logan wasn't waking up crying in the middle of the night anymore, she just always comes into our bed at some point so she can snuggle with me (which I love), and when the deep play of the girls always fills me with wonder and awe at their imagination and commitment.

Here are some things that Logan has said recently that made me laugh:

1. "Logan, you have to go sleep. Getting enough sleep will help your body grow."
   "But, mom, I don’t want to grow up!"
   "Why not?""Because I don’t know how to drive!!"
2. On the way home, I turned down a street that we don't usually go down."Mom, where are we?!....Africa??"
3. "Hey mom, can you hear of my body stretching? Can you hear it doing a long long stretch?"
4. "Mom, where is God?""He's everywhere."
   After a few moments: "Is he under things?"
5. I asked her if she thought she looked like me or Ken (she said she looks like Ken and Sloane looks like me). And then I asked "What about Rusty? Do you think Rusty looks like me or daddy?"She gets an incredulous look on her face and says, “Moom, Rusty’s ears are not here (pointing to the side of her head where her ears are), they are on top of his head!!"
6. Counting: “...7..8..9...hm but why does 9 come after 8?”
7. And her new thing now that she says when she doesn't want to do something is to loudly declare,"I'M NEVER!"

Here are some gems from Sloane: 

1. The other day, the song "Faded" came on (by Alan Walker, the Tiesto remix) and I heard Sloane say wistfully, "Oh, this reminds me of summer when I was little." (She's referring to two years ago when we made a video using this song for our summer kick off video).
2. Sloane is still winning all the awards for being the such a good big sister. I still marvel at how mature and calm and reasonable she can be when trying to help Logan or talk her down from a near meltdown. There was this one time we were playing "the song game", where I start playing a song and they have to take turns guessing the name of the song, and I can't remember why but Logan started to get upset about something, and I took a deep breath about to tell her to simmer down, and then Sloane came in and started soothingly explaining the situation to Logan and providing a solution - all in a way that was even better than I would have handled it. I was VERY impressed, and Logan was totally reassured and calmed down.
3. Similarly, I cut up peaches for the girls the other day and Logan got very upset that the peaches had darker parts of the peach center (not the pit, but the parts around it) still attached to some of the peach slices and started wailing about it. I said "too bad, go ahead and just eat it", she kept refusing and I ignored her. A few minutes later I came back and she was eating it, because Sloane had taken each one of her slices and bitten the darker parts off of it.
4. Sloane has a best friend at school, and the other day, she described a conflict to me and how they worked it out.  I was proud of her for working it out, but also for opening up to me, describing it to me so well and allowing me to ask her all the questions.  It felt like she was so much older than six.
5. Sloane's favorite sandwich these days is cucumber slices, ham or turkey and some sort of mayo (or better yet, jajik!). She likes it so much that we call it a "Sloanie sandwich"!
6. I had such a good time reading L. Frank Baum's "The Wonderful Wizard of Oz" with her a few weeks ago.  Diving into a story like that together with her is my favorite.
7. I heard Sloane "playing" the ukelele and singing a made-up song and I went to go check it out. She had set up a little chair with some baskets around her, and was telling Logan she could put money in the basket while she played. She then said that she was poor so Logan should probably take her out to dinner.
8. This morning Ken was trying to wake her up (yes, we have to wake them up every morning, and they are so sleepy when we do...it's very sad) and said, "Come on Koala bear, get up!"And she said, "You know koala bears sleep for a long time, right? .....so you can just let me sleep!"

These series of photos was their idea. This is them being "serious". 

This is their "happy". 

This is their "fancy". 

And this is their "silly". 

Where did she get poses like this?? 

FRIDAY LINKS

Happy almost-spring Friday! It's been a while since I've done one of these post full of links, but I have some good stuff I want to share, so here they are:

1. I want to make this maple syrup pie this weekend because 1) it looks delicious, and 2) I have all the ingredients I need for this already at home. It reminds me of Four and Twenty Blackbird's Salty Honey Pie, which I love and have made several times. I'm dubious about how there is no cornstarch or cornmeal in the filling to hold it all together, so I might take a note from this recipe and add some in.

2. If you didn't know, Ken and I have a podcast called Living with the Moons. You can go to the website to see our topics, our guests, and even listen to the episode through the website. You can also find us on iTunes and Spotify as well!

3. I've started Toni Morrison's "The Source of Self-Regard" and it is so good, delicious and nutritious, I'm savoring it as such.  This review in the NYTimes about the book is also lovely.

4. Speaking of books, I was thinking to myself the other day that a great idea for a book would be a compilation of good books from each country or culture, and then I did some googling and found this amazing list.

5. I've been wearing down my work pants, and while I will probably go hunting for some more at my local thrift stores, I am also eyeballing one of these to try.

6. And if I were the type of person to wear a watch, I might wear something like this.

7. I'm subscribed to receive Mark Bittman's newsletters via email and I have been really enjoying them. Lots of good recipes, ideas and articles about food and cooking, like this one about how to get good at cooking. (Basically, just keep doing it!)

8.  The girls and I (well, just mostly Sloane and I, while Logan came in and out) read  L. Frank Baum's The Wonderful Wizard of Oz book together last week to get ready for watching the play this weekend (!) and it was so good. I had never read it before (I had only watched the Judy Garland movie version) and so I got to experience it for the first time as well.  It was especially sweet to read the version that was illustrated by Robert Ingpen. I was gifted the version of "The Wind in the Willow" that was illustrated by him as well and we all love the pictures in that one.  I went to his website and saw that he did a bunch of other ones, that I can't wait to check out.

WHAT I'M READING V. 45

1. The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis

I vaguely remember reading this one a while ago but as I started to read, it felt new (should I be concerned with how I often can't remember books I've read? Thus, the logging of books here on this blog...). Regardless, there are so many good nuggets in there, that it's one that needs to be re-read on a regular basis, even if it's just to remember how limited we are by the word "love" in the English language in its everyday uses.  He goes through the different types of love: storge (affection), philia (friendship), eros (sexual), and agape (God's love), which was very helpful, especially because I was pointed in this direction from reading the chapter on love in Karen Swallow Prior's "On Reading Well".

2. The Million-Dollar Dime by R. Scot Rodin 

This is a book that I got from work - one of our partners gave a copy to everyone - and it's a short "novelette" that tells a story to illustrate the freedom that can be found in really believing that everything we have belongs to God. This book dovetails with the North Point messages that we have been watching on the series called "Money Talks", which has caused me to think hard about the way I approach money, and have led to some important discussions between me and Ken.

3.  The Murder of Roger Ackroyd by Agatha Christie

I was delighted when I learned this was last month's book club pick because I used to love reading Agatha Christie, and it had been a long time since I had read one of her books. As soon as I began the book, I remembered why I love her books - the writing is so precise and delicious, and this one in particular was so funny. And then of course the mystery. However, when I finished reading this one I threw down the book in frustration because I didn't like what she did with the ending at all! I don't want to spoil the ending for you, but if you've read it or end up reading it, let me know what you think. 

4. And Then There Were None 

I asked on IG about people's favorite Agatha Christie, and when this one was offered up, I went in search of it, found that the audiobook was available and consumed it in one big gulp. It's a marvelous piece of mystery writing, with a full cast of characters that get killed off one by one trapped on an island, and keeps you guessing the entire time. It is truly creepy and held me in suspense and I couldn't wait to find out how she was going to wrap this one up.  The possibilities were many, and the ending was as satisfying as it could have been for such a plot. (Afterwards, I speculated about how I might have spinned it in different ways!)

HELLO GUEST ROOM: GOODBYE PLAYROOM

A house-related update! The plan was to go through and do posts for all the rooms in the house, but it's been a very gradual process so they come when they come. So far, I've posted about the kitchen, master bedroom, bar room, girl's bedroom (although I need to do an update on this one too) and the playroom...which is what has been transformed here. We loved the playroom, but more and more I found the girls would play in their bedroom and then we needed the extra guest space, thus, the update. 

As a reminder, this is what it looked like before when it was the playroom:

I posted about it here, which was the first iteration of the room, and then we made some additions and alterations that I didn't document, but here is an additional photo of one of the corners with a craigslist drawer and baby Lola!

                             

And now.....

So different! It's not quite done because I would like to eventually add curtains and change out the light fixture here, but it's almost there and it is super cozy.  We've already housed many a guest here, and I really like how it turned out as a guest room, especially since this is actually a really small room.

I switched the rugs between this room and the girls' bedroom, we got this nifty bedframe from Amazon and then most of the other items here are thrifted from Craigslist or Goodwill.



I put the dresser in the closet space, along with a bar that holds empty hangers for guests to use.

Should I paint that chalkboard wall back to white? I'm thinking about it.  Although I still love it and we still use it occasionally.  Plus, I sort of like the look of the dark wall as contrast. Maybe I'll add some art to the top of this wall to give the room more texture and dimension? 

Chairs are SO expensive and finding a comfy reading chair has been top priority for months now. I found this one that fit all my criteria for $40, and I like to read it in sometimes.

I really love those prints of the ships that are above the bed. I found them at antique mall in Columbus, OH and they were the inspiration for the whole room. I also found that little desk on craigslist for $10 and it fit perfectly here to function as both a nightstand and desk. 

This was fun, I'm motivated to keep these going. I have posts about the sitting room and dining room coming up eventually! 

WHAT I'M READING V. 44

1. Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne

I think I saw this recommended by Sherry of Young House Love, when she said this is a book she has re-read several times over the years, and I was compelled by the subtitle, "using the extraordinary power of less to raise calmer, happier, and more secure kids" to read it immediately. It has great tips and suggestions, as well as reasons why to simplify, and while many of them I already knew of and try to practice already, it was wonderful to get that affirmation and gain further insight into why it is so important to parent (and live!) in this way.

2. The Power and the Glory by Graham Greene

This is another one that was recommended to me, and I had never heard of the title or author before.  The book is set in the 1930's during the height of the Mexican anti-clerical purge, and is indeed a parable of the dualities within us; full of the despair and worst parts of human nature, but also the redemption. The writing is remarkable, vivid, and the scenes roll out like a play. It reminded me in ways of Endo's "Silence" and has provided for many thoughts and conversation thereafter.

3. Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata 

This was a short "read" (which I listened to on audiobook) and found it fascinating, a little disconcerting and unique in tone.  It's about a woman who is very content working at a convenience store and does not understand why the societal pressures of progressing in career or getting married an having a family should apply to her.  The book seems like a commentary on social norms and conformist culture; while it doesn't necessarily declare a philosophy either way, it notes the peculiarities of it from the point of view from a rather detached narrator, who has a different set of values and norms.

4. Notorious RBG by Irin Carmon and Shana Knizhnik

I listened to this one via Hoopla  - and found it to be such a delight. I didn't know what to expect, but it is basically an ode to Ginsburg, based on some history and interviews over time.  I only had a vague sense of who she was (one of the female justices of the Supreme court) and that she was more in the public eye recently (there were two movies made about her last year!) but didn't know much else, so I really enjoyed learning.  For one, I didn't know how instrumental she was in women's rights over the past 50 years, and found her determination, passion and strategies over her career to be so inspirational.  I found her story especially compelling as a working mom, who like all other working moms, had to figure out a balance and forge this path for herself as well as for her kids.  I really liked one of the appendices, that was titled, "How to be like RBG".  It attempted to summarize her philosophy in a list form, which is not the best format necessarily, but I found it helpful enough that I transcribed it and will include it here: 

How to be like RBG

1. Work hard for what you believe in. 

2. ....but pick your battles. (anger, resentment, envy - these are emotions that just zap your energy. they aren't productive and don't get you any place, so get over it.)

3. To be like RBG in dissent, save your public anger for when there's lots at stake and you've tried everything else. 

4. ....and don't burn your bridges. Fight for the things you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you. Paint the other side's arguments in the best light, avoiding personal insults. She is painstaking in presenting facts, on the theory that the truth is weapon enough. 

5. Don't be afraid to take charge. 

6. Think about what you want and then do the work! Do I want this or not? If I do, I'll do it. 

7. Enjoy what makes you happy. 

8. Bring along your crew. 

9. Have a sense of humor. A little goes a long way.